Dr. John Gray basically says that when women take on laborious-types, or other demanding jobs, their testosterone increases. Unlike men, when the testosterone of women increases, their stress also increases. The women need their oxytocin levels to increase in order to reduce their stress. Oxytocin basically increases when one takes on a role of nurturer.
Men, on the other hand, when their testosterone increases, their stress levels decrease.
Role reversal will cause a hormonal imbalance.
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Let your men work harder and earn more money; let your women stay home and raise the children. This way, if the man makes enough money, the woman has no need to work. If she is bored, she can find many other things to do, within the home. Man and woman should meet 50/50 in their duties that they bring forward to get closer to each other. Remember: many of us only seek more money for more things. The endgame should be contentment; money is only a medium to reach that stage. Learn to cut the middleman (money) out of the equation, and seek the end result (contentment).
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